The refusal.
The tears.
The yelling.
The shutdown.
The “I can’t.”
But behaviour is not always the first clue.
The Child Capacity Snapshot helps you look earlier, at the load that may have been building before things tipped. It gives you a simple way to notice early cues, identify hidden load, and start spotting patterns in your child’s behaviour without turning family life into a full-time observation project.
This is not a diagnostic tool.
It is a parent-friendly starting point for making sense of the moments that keep repeating.